Insensitivity

My wife and I just started infertility testing. I have had pcos since I was 16 currently 31. The ER found polyups in my uterus and a block in one fallopian tube, and of course I did not ovulate.

When I finally sit down with her I barely tell her fully what happened and she is talking about how she saw there were so many children on the state adoption website and going on and on about it.

We have been Ttc'ing for 2 months maybe? We only did one at home insemination no meds. I feel like it was so unsupportive and insensative.

I literally could not look at her. So now feel like is it hopeless. She is being a jerk. IDK