What should I do?

Question

My husband doesn’t go to me first when we have a situation or a problem happen to us that affects the both of us together, should I try and get him to talk to me? Or fuck it and let him rant to everyone else in the world?...

Answer

My husband won’t bring a problem to me because In his head it’s “I can’t talk to you about problems if you are the problem” I tried to get him to understand that it’s not how a marriage works and he can’t bring everyone else into our marriage.

Answer

try to get him to talk to you.  just remember guys aren't like girls.  they don't want to really talk about feelings especially with their wives.  sometimes they feel it easier to talk to friends.  if he is having difficulty exposing his words you might try a couples therapist could help.  but when you tall to him make it light hearted.  try having a picnic and talking outside together when you don't have the pressures of kids and work starting at you in the face. or something similar where is just time to train not while you are focusing on other things

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