how do i deal with a miscarriage as a teenager!? 💔

Question

I have absolutely no idea how I'm meant to deal with this information. I miscarried pretty early on and I only found out I was even pregnant about 2 weeks ago. the doctors are barely sympathetic they just send you home and tell you to rest. I'm absolutely devastated and my mum is saying I should be relieved that it was a blessing in disguise. I have no idea what to do with myself I'm in so much pain emotionally and physically. 
if anyone else has had a similar experience please tell me how you got through it, I just feel hopeless.
update:
thankyou guys for commenting I'm currently out of school I don't have access to a counselor but I'm going to go to my doctor and ask what options are available for people my age (17) and go from there. I think my mum is just in shock she's not meaning to be unsupportive and she has apologised since I posted this.
but thankyou everyone for your kindness I really appreciate it all ❤x

Answer

It doesn’t matter what age you are sweetie . Young or old... a miscarriage is the most devastating thing next to losing a child to stillbirth. I’m so sorry this happened to you. I will pray for you as you go through this devastating loss. Even though you are young, that’s no reason for your mom to be that way. You still carried that baby...babies are hard not to get attached to. I’m sure a lot of women on GLOW would agree with me. Unfortunately these ladies in the comments are right, there is nothing they will do , I begged them to keep running more test and I only found that I just kept breaking my own heart. It’s rough, I think it’s unfair women have to go through this. I feel like god shouldn’t allow things like that to happen. I questioned my faith because of my experience but now I’m on a good place. Right now I’m 11 weeks pregnant with my rainbow baby and it’s not any easier forgetting about the baby I lost because you can never replace the child you loss. You will always worry with your next pregnancy. Every little thing , your anxiety will shoot through the roof. But just know that you are not alone. That you have people who have been through a similar experience. Whether your mom understands how you feel or not, we know and we are here.

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you can ask to talk to a counselor school or at your dr where i live they have counselor at our clinic. it is a hard thing having a miscarriage and as of right now your mom is not been a good support dr's can't do much when you have a threatning miscarriage this is why they tell you to go home and rest as much as they would like to do something to stop a miscarriage they can't and there is no way to stop it i had my first miscarriage at the age of 19 and it was the hardest i had the support of my husband now (ex) but nothing from the rest of my fam i've had 3losses total so i know how that feels i am really sorry you are going thru this but hope you can talk to someone asap

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I am so sorry! Please reach out to a counselor. Your school counselor can help you! Just please speak to someone. Your mother is not supporting you properly. Losing a baby is never a blessing in disguise. I wish you the absolute best. And remember you always have an angel looking out for you. ❤️

how do i deal with a miscarriage as a teenager!? 💔

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