so I share a home with my brother and his fiance. my family consists of myself, my husband, and my 8 month old. all bills and groceries are split 50/50. but when it comes to cooking and cleaning, I am the only one doing any of it. the men work. myself and my soon to be SIL are home all day. so there's no excuse for her not to help. She doesn't cook which I'm okay with. but not cleaning as well pisses me off. I've talked to my brother face to face once and he said they would help out more. 2 month pass and still no one helps. I texted him the other day when they were working because when I came down stairs that morning he nor his fiance bothered to put the food away from the previous night so bread, burgers, cheese, mayo, etc. went bad. he ignored me and still has said nothing. so my question is, should I charge him a cleaning fee every week? the only thing I don't do is their laundry. I do all dishes, clean kitchen bathroom living area as well as cooking.what do you ladies think?