Hiding your pregnancy?? Help

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I'm 23 years old I live on my own with my hubby we are not married yet wedding planning this morning I hate a bfp an now I'm in a tuff spot I've wanted this for years but my mother is super crazy an does not want me to have a baby I love you she only wants best but I have raised everyone else's children time for my own I am have money problems at the time so I know if I tell her she will snap I am not at risk of loosing my house or crazy like that just car has become to much to keep up with so I just don't know weather I should tell her yet or even when my hubby told me he doesn't want to tell anyone till I'm 6 months I told him he is crazy help

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Maybe just maybe, English isn't the OP primary language??? Or am I the only one with enough brains to stop and think not everyone on this app speaks English?

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23 and you type like this?

Anyway, just don't tell her if you're uncomfortable with it. It's not like it's her business anyway.

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Stop attacking her for things that have nothing to do with her question. We are woman trying to lean on one another for advice. Ridiculous.

Talk to your fiancé. Try to find a happy medium.

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I would just tell her and get it over with. She may be mad for a little while but she'll warm up when she realises there's nothing she can do. Also she may get more mad if you wait to tell her and she finds out that you hid it from her. You have to tell her eventually anyways and once her shock is over she may be helpful to you. I'm sure you'll have a lot of questions during pregnancy and after and it would be nice to have your mother there and be able to talk to her about it, not to mention it will be a lot less stressful then trying to hide it for six months. Good luck with everything and I hope you have a healthy happy pregnancy.

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You're 23 and spelling *tough* like that?

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The only thing I could help you with is your grammar and spelling, you need it.

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I don't know what her spelling or grammar had to do with her problem. Your missing the point.

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Tell her

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I would tell her

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I'm kind of in the same spot... my mom keeps telling me to wait for kids... but ever since I was in 4th grade I have wanted nothing more than to be a mother! We are TTC against my mother's wishes, I know she will likely freak when we first tell her BUT she will get over it. (She also just wants what is best) My MIL on the other hand is ok with it, in fact I think she would be excited as her other grand babies live so far away!
We are happily married adults and this is what we want. We don't have a lot of money but we will make it work.

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