Real women work!!!

I'm a stay at home mom. I have never had a full time job. My husbands makes all the money for our household so of course he pays all the bills. We have one kid and one in the way I'm am so sick and tired of older women and women my age trying to make me feel bad for not working. First it was my aunt. Who tried to act like she was not talking directly to me in a group of people saying women who don't work are dumb. Then my sister said while angry at me that when my husband leaves me I won't have anything because he pays all the bills. My husband and I have never had problems in our relationship. And lately a lot of family members have been posting things on social media which I know is direct towards me saying things like only a rat bitch will depend on a nigga to pay her bills a real woman don't. So in April my husband gave me money to start an online business and I have been making my own money almost close to what he makes per month but even now people are still saying negative things saying that nothing we have not even my business or the car he bought me is mine because when we get divorced he is going to take everything. I swear people are just hoping we break up. But I know we won't because we trust each other so much and we are best friends. But I'm just so tried of people trying to say I'm less of a woman because I don't work a 9-5.