Trying to keep to myself

It’s hard when my bro in law, much younger than me, seems to be spinning out of control and his parents and my husband don’t really see it. Up until this past weekend when he apparently was drinking and driving, rolled his car and then his car caught on fire.

I want to say I told you. I told you! But I can’t. Nobody is allowed to lecture him or anything. I’m just so confused on how someone that could have such supportive parents let him go on to possibly ruining his life. It’s enabling him.

And then everyone is like “welp”

If that was my sister, I would be on her, guiding her. Not letting her continue down a pathway of. destruction.

Idk. So much on my mind.