so I'm snapchatting my guy right after a long day just wanting to talk to him and after a few minutes he gets all red so I said are you okay? And he goes "no I'm rubbing myself and about to cum" he says it's because he's thinking of us doing stuff but like wtf I'm trying to be sweet and talk and he just wants to jerk off. am I wrong for being so pissed I'm crying right now?