anybody else that has quarter black babies also have this problem

I'm half black and my husband is full white and we have 5 daughters. I am so sick of people acting like they are some strange breed! It doesn't help that some of my daughters look more white than others. One of my daughters has "black people" hair and the rest of them has just thick straight black hair. One of them has pretty dark skin and the rest is super light skinned. Only one has brown eyes and only one has more African features. They all are beautiful but I'm so sick of the way people treat us and people saying I chose a side. How annoying is that!