So this whole thing is a very long story, maybe I’ll tell it one day. But for now ill give you the cliffs notes.

My hubby ex is a crazy bitch (I’m not just saying that cause I’m his wife, she’s clinically nuts)

They had an unplanned baby, and after K (not using his whole name) got pneumonia (bc S-the ex is a reckless, awful mother) my hubby and this girl moved in with my in laws.

K was 6 months old and my in laws were going on a trip so they asked S to find a couch to stay on while they were gone bc she couldn’t be trusted to be alone with my hubby or the baby ( by law) and she was told when they get back she come come back.

So they get back and lo and behold S has ran off to another province. My MIL texts her and basically asks where the fuck she is and she reply’s that she isn’t ready to be a mother and she can’t handle this blah blah and runs out on her 6 month old baby.

After she leaves hubby files for sole custody and she ignores the court date and never shows, so hubby gets it.

Flash forward a year and I am now dating my hubby. S is in another province and is pregnant again (bc CFS is stupid and only had her red flagged as being an unsuitable mother in my province, so she was able to run off and have another baby) so my hubby files to have Ks last name changed to his. She ignores this again, and it is awarded.

Flash forward to now, K is completely unaware of S except the four times in the past 5 years she has called him. And to him, I am mom.

So this girl messages my MIL pretending not to know my hubbys number and asks my MIL for pictures. ( she does this constantly bc she likes to go on Facebook and pretend to give a fuck.) my MIL says no and gives her my number. The next day I get a text

“I would really like to have a relationship with you seeing as you are raising our son. If you ever want to talk feel free to call!”

I reply

“If you have questions about K you can ask, but other than that please do not text me”

This might sound bitchy, but there’s more to this story than I’m telling.

And then just recently, this happened.

My hubbys best friend happens to be her step brother, and her dad is someone we get along with and he gets to see K whenever he likes. So her dad’s dad past away, and she was in our province for the funeral, and the day before she flys out I get a text from her saying she would like to see K . I told her that’s fine but I’m not bringing him to her (I have no responsibility to let her see him.) and she says she cant find a way out to my MILs house which is literally 15 minutes away from where she is staying!

I just CANNOT FATHOM how you don’t find a way to see your son?! I don’t get how she can just pass over him?!!

One more year and my son will be 7 and I am filing for abandonment and adopting him. And then he will never have to deal with her fucking in and out style of “parenting”.

Of course I will tell him I am not his natural mother. But she won’t have the opportunity to pop in and out with phone calls and stuff like she is doing now.

I know this is long. But this is my life, and my son. And if I could wish one person to the frigid arctic hell it would be this girl.

I feel better having that off my chest.