This is my second pregnancy, I lost my twins in August. I'm having my first appt with my ob gyn on the 10th and I know they'll do the Pap smear... I know it's technically safe, but with my last pregnancy after the Pap smear I bled for a week and even though it's safe, I know the bleeding from it will cause me huge anxiety. Am I being irrational by asking the doctor not to do it this time around?