I cant stop crying about this please help,

I tried to help my friend, by make her a support group, ....and she gets mad when she finds out, that I told her other close friend some of the stuff shes been thru, and she gets really mad, sobi explain to her about the support group, and I only used those words bcuz I couldn't think of anything else to call it ,she has some issues with anorexia, and depression, and cutting herself, and so I just wanted to make her feel love instead of judgement......HELP ME