I need help and advise!!!

So I just found out I have Herpes

I’ve been with my husband faithfully and loyally for 5 years.

Our daughter is almost 2 years old, and I’ve NEVER had any symptoms before I had her. I delivered her naturally no problem.

Is it possible I’ve had it before and just not show symptoms!?

I mean I’m assuming my husband may not be telling me the whole truth. But if I were to have it for 5 years and not show a symptom then all of a sudden a symptoms.

I’m so distraught and have no idea what to think.