Parenting with husband who goes against what I say.

Anytime I say anything to my kids about going to bed early cuz they were up LATE the night before he always says no they can stay up cuz he use to do it when he was younger and all that but every time I try to parent the kids who is always bitching at me about it ( they are both our kids) and talks to me like I’m no one and I tell him how it makes me feels and he don’t give a shit pretty much.