While he was at basic..

Okay to start off im 20 married and currently 27 weeks pregnant .

So my husband just got back from Basic Training for from jan - now .. a long 15 weeks.

We just got a apartment yesterday and just now i started to unpack his bags since he is at work and during basic they take your phones so you can only write letters . I found his letter book and he doesnt care if i look at it but when i was going through it he wrote a letter to his ex and then i confronted him about it and he lied and said it wasnt his hand writing when it was .. and then said he never told them about her ( which clearly he did they never knew him before )

And then i dropped it whatever . He claimed he didnt even know her address but i went to look at the other book and i found her name and address written 3 times .

And in his yearbook 2 of his friends wrote about this girl and told him to fuck this other girl he kept talking about .

Every time i try and confront him about her he just says bootcamp fucking around its a joke grow up .

Now idk if its my hormones that are making me upset or the fact that my husband is writing down letters to his ex ( sending them or not ) is beyond fucked up especially since we have a baby coming in 2 months . And the fact that his friend said he wanted to fuck another girl.

Someone please tell me if im not the only

One who thinks this is fucked up .

is this common for military men while in bootcamp? Please give me advice:/