never ending:(

Hey everyone..

So instead of my boyfriends kids mother texting me about a problem she had. (Which I didnt even know she had one she just randomly kept getting attitude and I was clueless)

So she called my boyfriends mother and told her I never want the kids , the kids said they dont wanna come home, they feel like I never want them here

She also said they dont wanna come home cause I make them study....I make them study 2x a week and its reading since his sons in 6th on a 3rd grade reading level.

Which I know shes full of shit... whenever the kids come to the car they scream my name. Tells me they love and miss me.. if anything they say sometimes they dnt wanna go to their mothers.

So I texted my boyfriends mom and gave her MY side and I told her everything. And she pretty much bashed me and stood up for her !.

The kids mother doesnt work so I feel like she should have them a little more

(She goes thru phases where she wont see them , take them , she didnt see them for 6 months before).

If it's her days to have them I feel like she should find a sitter not make me do it on her day.

She got mad at me the other day cause she wanted to drop them off 2 hrs early but i was at a bday party.

Since than shes been a BITCH. She also told my bfs mom I always have attitude with her .. I'm always nice to her even when shes being mean to me.

My boyfriends mom bashed me and I feel so unappreciated I been sobbing. Like noones knows what I do they only know half.

My son doesnt go to bed early cause hes teething and has night terrors so he is messed up schedule wise.

My bf son gets up for school at 630

My bf daughter gets up at 830

And my son at 1030.

Sometimes he dnt go to sleep till 330-4am.

I cook them dinner

Make sure they shower

Hw is done

They study

Brush teeth

" All I ask them to do is put dishes in sink , put clothes in basket and to make sure rooms clean after they play they are 10 and 12 they are old enough..

So this is what his mom said

I really don't like being involved. I think she is right on some stuff but not everything. She does have the kids a lot more from what I see. Every time u guys come here it's just the 3 of u. They needed to buy a car cause Linda's was dying and they need to get around. Going back n forth during the week is just rediculous. Too much time and gas for a couple hrs. Not like u live close to each other anymore. As far as mondays go, I would just get up n stay up til both r on bus. It's only 1 day a week. It's stupid for her to b taking them to school when the bus picks them up there. They r good kids, not a problem to any of you. Her on the other hand should not say she gonna b there to get kids off bus n not show up. That's bs. She should split the cost of school supplies n clothes also. They walk around like bums sometimes n it pisses me off. All the kids should b dressed to the nines. If u can afford for 1 then u can afford for all. Tell her how u feel, that u need help financially at certain times of yr. u all can fight about this all u want but the ones paying for it are them kids. I tell it how I see it, always will. I appreciate what u do for them but some things have to change. If u want to go see ur family I don't see y all the kids can't go. I know they aren't related to ur family but they should be accepted. "

It pissed me off cause

1. She only has them rn cause she isnt working

2. I dress them how there mother sends them back not my fault u see them when they're either going bck or coming home.

3. They are accepted and always have been. But if it's their mothers day I'm not ab to cancel my plans cause she wants to drop them off a hr early.

4. Pissed me off when she said if u can afford 1 kid u can afford 3. U dnt know our financial situation or wat we buy. We bought the baby more this yr cause he had 1 summer outfit where the kids have a toat & closet full of clothes.

5. Little does she know I get up with all 3 kids every day while he sleeps till 3pm so excuse me for not wanting to be bothered.

I can't go get a job cause they dont wanna help with sitter wise and we have noone else besides my mom and its hard for her cause her back. And we can't afford to pay someone.

We can't move to where It would be cheaper cause THE KIDS school. Cause they changed schools enough.

Now that the kids mom has a job I'm sure shell be try to throw them on me and if I say no shell ask his mom and shell find out I said no and it'll be a fight.

I just feel so unappreciated like I said before I just do so much and I never get a thank u or a ur a amazing mom and stepmom ever and it hurts sooo bad

Idc about the issues me and his family had before it's still nice to hear and I would love to hear it right now :(

I just dnt understand they hold all our issues over my head. They say i never want them but they never wanna see them unless we bring them to their house.

I have been trying to show them I care and love the kids by posting more pics , by texting them funny things they do, , making sure they know I tell the kids I love them.. they wont realize that tho..

She than told me she said she had to get her man a car cause hers is broke her car wasnt broke when they got his car. So that's another excuse.

His mom also thinks that we should keep them 5 days a wk without sending them to their mothers cause SHE decided to move 25 mins away so we shouldnt send them.

Do u feel like I should be feeling this way ?

Do u feel like I should be this upset ? I'm honestly I almost reconsidering my relationship caused I can't take it anymore... I'm always wrong... plz no bashing