I don't know if this is the place for this but it is controversial in my life. So I haven't seen my dad physically in 5 years yes it sounds awful I know but I'll give you some back story, I lived with my dad from 12 years old to 17 years old in that time period my step brother molested and raped me they didn't believe me. I moved out finally to my moms my senior year in high school, when my step mom and dad found out that I wanted to live with my mom and step dad my dad said I was not his daughter so I stopped coming around when I moved out but I would call around holidays and his birthday but never got answers. So fast forward to now my husband has never met my father due to the fact that my husband feels he should of done something about me being raped. So I made plans to see my dad while he was off all week and I had one day off Tuesday. He called me that morning and I set up to be at their house at 3 o clock this was at 10 o clock. So my husband reluctantly comes to meet him. We arrive, nobody is even there, nobody answers the phones. I finally got called back at almost 4 o clock saying that they were sorry but they went out to eat at 1 and thought they would be back by then but just so conveniently my step mom left her phone at the house and my dad never answers his. How should I react to this? I feel completely unwanted by my own father. I need advice?