STRESSED!!!!!IN NEED OF ADVICE

Ok so recently I’ve been super stressed out bc I want to move out of my moms house and move in w my dad but I love my mom and how responsible and loving she is but she’s super controlling and I’m going into hs and want more freedom and I just don’t know what to do and I’ve been stressed bc basketball bc I’m not really good and the coach embarrasses me in front of everyone. ADVICE PLEASE!?!?