Am I just a mug?

I’ve known this lad for about 2 years, only properly met a month ago. Within the last month I’ve let him take my virginity and other things have happened.we’ve recently spent the night together in a hotel. We’ve spoke every single day(text and call) since we’ve met. This weekend we spent the night together and now he’s telling me I can’t text him for a whole month, with no reason other than he don’t think I can do it. I personally am catching feelings for him, obviously or I wouldn’t of allowed these things to happen. He’s told me he deleted the dating app that we first met on and he’s known since day 1 about me having tinder (which I don’t use and he don’t care) he wanted to see my matches. Fine I let him. He’s not really letting out any clues about his feelings and I’m feeling a little lost now. Not really sure what to think about this entire situation? Am I just being a mug? Do I text him telling him how I feel even though he’s said not to? I don’t think I can hold out for a whole month. Any advice good or bad is much appreciated, sorry for the long post.