Trying but not trying to conceive

Hi all my name is Mila and I'm 23 years old. I've been married to my hubby 4 years now and we have never tried to purposely get pregnant well maybe he hadn't tried but I sure did lol! But we have been having unprotected sex for a long time and still no pregnancy except for when before we were married. It only lasted 5 weeks but I got so excited :( it was the last time I ever had a pregnancy ever. I am truly trying to get pregnant now that we are more financially stable and I want my hubby to want to be a father soon. Basically I'm just letting everyone know a little of my story. Sincerely,

Mila