someone help me no one else will

I was on the depo for 6 years so I have no period and like a week and 5 days ago I decided to have a iud put in me it was called the kyleena it was a big mistake for me because from the moment they put it in I was in terrible pain but my doctor said that was normal by like day 3 after insersion I was in even more pain so I called my doctor and no one would pick up the phone so about 7 days after insersion I started to bleed down there and that's not normal for me anyway (the doctor said I would not start my period untill a year or more after I stopped depo) So I called my doctor and no one answered yet again then I called the hospital and they told me to come in. by the time I got to the hospital I was filling extra absorbent pads with blood in like a hour, I got in the hospital room waited for about 7 hours and a male doctor came in the room ( he didn't seem like he knew what he was doing ) he did a examination and took some kinda test and told me there's nothing he could do to help he also said he could not remove it because my gynecologist would have to do so and I was told to call her the next day. the test came back while I was at the hospital and apparently I had pelvic inflammatory disease so I got some antibiotics and he sent me on my way. so about 2 days ago was the following morning I proceeded to called my doctor and yet again no answer so I went down there and had some words with them and they told me there's no way they would see me with out it costing me out the ass. so I went home and about 3 hours later I was in major pain and could not pee because the pain so I was sitting on the toilet straining to pee and the iud came out in the toilet. after that moment I've been going through pads like crazy and have been having terrible pain and feeling so sick and honestly not wanting to live anymore. my doctors know it's out and refuse to help me and I'm in pain and bleeding bad.its been like 2 days since it's been out and I'm feeling worse and keep haveing wierd things coming out along with the blood can anyone tell me what this might be or tell me anything to help.