announcing pregnancy

Im getting frustrated.. Im with a loving man, Im 21 years old and will be 22 when the baby is born. I'm tired of the really poor reactions Im getting when i say im pregnant. My love's friends have said "oh ok" "how do you feel about it" my aunt said i shouldnt have told anyone yet because "it probably wont last" and "how do you even know that youre pregnant" (tf) my great aunt mentioned abortion and everyone is asking "well what are you going to do?" I WANTED THIS BABY PEOPLE. IM HAPPY DAMNIT HOW ABOUT CONGRATULATIONS