How would this make u feel ?

So on Friday my husband and I went to get a Van for the family. My daughter was acting out so I was pissed off . He said he wanted. A truck I told him the get a dam truck! Anyways he then decided a Van was good during the papers I got mad cause he didn't add my name to the title. I know I was not on the loan cause I have poor credit but y not the title. Then all weekend he kept making comments about how it's His Van !! Not ours but his . I had asked him when we bought it not to do that cause it was pissing me off but he kept on with it . He has been the only one driving it . I only drove it once to the corner . Today I had enough and fliped a lid. Today I feel like I have so much hate toward him cause of this . We have a lot of other issues but this is stressing me out . I refuse to drive it and now he says he was just messing around and I'll be the one driving it . I told him I want nothing to do with the dam can and now he says I'm being selfish cause he wanted a truck . I'm pissed and don't know what to do . He won't listen to me even tho I've explained to him 30 times he just turns it around on me . How would u feel