Question: Shafting and queefs

I know some say it’s normal BUT! My bf and I tried anal for the first time with a lot of lube (like a lot). And it actually felt great and then he looked down at his perfectly white T-shirt and i FUCKING SHAT ON IT! I took off his shirt and threw it away immediately. I was so embarrassed and I wasn’t feeling in the mood to continue our sinful deeds but he was still horny. And then on another occasion we were doing doggy and when he pulled out to cum I queefed and ran to the restroom and the whole way I kept on queefing! Hahaha it was so funny but so embarrassing!! Anyways! What can I do to prevent this? Am I the only one? Hi