Do I Stay or Do I Go?

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My husband of a year ( been together 4 ) has been pushing all his stress onto me lately. I'm always the one he takes everything out on.
We have had our share of ugly arguments causing to many holes in the walls, a hurt knee, and no longer having doors on any rooms in the house.
Im a SAHM who cleans up, does dishes, and laundry while taking care of our daughter and dog as well as keeping up with a baking business of my own. I have been told Im a horrible mom and house wife he tells my daughter I dont love her.
I'm at the end of my rope when its good its great when its bad it's horrible. I love this man more than anything but dont know if its worth my mental health and or safety any longer.

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Been there and still do it. We have been through a lot (my husband and I ) and he has anger issues. It’s hard. But I Love him to death. But sometimes I look at him and have to question myself if the stress is worth it or not

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If you want to patch things, try counseling. Sounds like your daughter shouldn’t be in that kind of environment though

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LEAVE!

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Leave. Any person that will look at the child you share and say that their mother doesnt love/ care about them is not in the relationship for your best interests. He sounds abusive and it will escalate. Get out while you can, and before any harm is done to you or your daughter. You may not think she will remember this, but kids remember small distinct memories. I have one from when I was 2-3 years old of my parents arguing and my father throwing my mom into a wall, and several other memories similar to that one. 
They stayed together, he doesnt abuse her daily but he has moments where if hes had too much to drink, and is feeling insecure he takes it out on her. She hates her life. Im 20 years old, in college. Im not financially stable enough to help her leave, as she is completely dependent on him and truthfully I dont think she even would if I was able to help her. 
I’ll always be upset with her for staying. Not demanding the respect she deserves. Not standing up for herself. Not being brave enough to put us in a better environment because no child should have to hear or see their own mom or dad being physically or mentally abused. And no matter what he does or buys me I will never respect him as a man. 
Dont get me wrong, I love my parents, but they made terrible decisions in their teens and 20s that still haunt them now in their late 40s. When I was 2, he pushed my mom into a wall, and 16 years later he pushed her into the same exact wall, for his same exact insecurities. They dont leave. Their abusive tendencies lie dormant, waiting for the right moment just to remind you of who is really in control.

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Leave, this sounds abusive and most likely won’t get any better..

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