How do u switch off ?

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Hi girls looking for some advice I guess , I have had 2  mc the last in feb at 11 weeks . How do you change ur mindset and get through each month especially when af arrives . It hurts so so much I just want to feel myself again x

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I miscarried at 12 weeks in November and we’ve been trying every month. Each cycle it’s hard to get AF and really hard to go hear other announcements and see so many people close to me pregnant. I will say I just passed my due date last week and it almost feels as if a weight has been lifted off of my shoulder. Most of the people due around me had their babies. These last 6.5months have been really hard for me I was numb in the beginning. I feel like I didn’t hit the deep of it until closer to 6weeks post MC and I felt like I was in the deep of it a long long time. I think just gradually it gets better- but then it will just creep up on me out of nowhere and I’ll be a mess all over again. This last month was one of my hardest knowing my due date was getting close. Not being pregnant again before I was due really hit hard too. I guess I thought if I could get pregnant before I was due then there would be a “reason” this happened- that I would have a rainbow baby and everything would suddenly make sense. The reality that it won’t ever make sense and I should be holding my baby right now can be hard to come to terms but most days I’m okay.

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I miscarried in January and then had a chemical in February! My due date coming in August and dreading the day coming! Still ttc our rainbow but it is taking time but we are ready for that BFP whenever it decides to come x

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We MC in Jan. By far he hardest thing I have ever done. So sorry for your loss! I trudged on. Trying to stay busy. I was a wreck on the inside while I worked during the day and at home I was short tempered or crying. I didn’t want to do anything or see anyone. I was mad. Heart broken. Scared. Lost. But I can honestly say by keeping my faith anchored DEEP, my Momma and my husband being by my side and keeping me positive there is light at the end of the tunnel! It took a while for my body to regulate again and for my periods to normalize. Every time I would go to the bathroom I felt a knot in my stomach. Such a terrible feeling. AF was hard to see and go through the first time but now each period is a positive reminder that my body is strong and health and ready when I am ready. The hardest thing for me was making love again after the MC. I cried and cried. But all of that has normalized also. Just know that you are not alone honey. I can’t believe it happens so often, so many women are in this boat with us! Pray. Pray a lot. Our God is an awesome God! And He will provide! ♥️

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“If is meant to be, it will be at the right time!” Thats what I am always saying to myself😞

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I have started having reflexology and massage to try relax. I do feel more chilled and balanced with it x

How do u switch off ?

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