sterilization my right

well i dunno about your country but in mine doctors doesnt let you get the surgery unless you already have 1 baby or 2. im young im 22 and my husband 24 and we both decided that kids are not for us don't miss understand us kids are cute but we just dont want em and well... i asked for the surgery and doctors said no... cuz youre young bla bla and my husband he asked and its a bit hard that he gets the surgery but definitely he can get it way easier than me my point is its unfair that other people get to decide for you if you dont want kids and are comfortable with your decision why dont u let us get the surgery? we're cafeful we are well educated about birth control and everything but our decision is definitive we want to be kids free. its just unfair someone else gets to choose for you just for their way of thinking or their beliefs its not their body its not their life its just unfair we should be free to get the surgery if thats our choice without struggling for it...