HELP!!!!

i lost my virginity about 3 months ago. i have hardly any “moves” because i lack experience. one of the biggest things that i don’t know how to do is be on top! i don’t know how to ride and i feel really bad because my boyfriend is constantly on top and doing all the work! if you guys have any tips on how to ride and make things more pleasurable for him, i would appreciate it greatly.

also, how do i know if i have had an orgasm? like i said i lost my virginity about 3 months ago and i’m still not sure if i’ve ever had an orgasm! please help!

he’s not unsatisfied with our sex life and neither am i, however i just feel bad that he is always on top! i’m a chunky girl and i do get a little insecure being on top but i am still willing to learn! thank you <3