Casual Sex

I been talking to this guy for a couple of years. And I remember at the start of our ‘Friendship’. He really liked me and still does. But now he wants to be Friends with Benefits. He gets so annoyed at times cause he doesn’t like the fact that I’m “too innocent” due to me just being that interested in sex throughout high school. In other words he wants me to have given blowjobs and have sex before doing it with him cause he wants me to do with someone else and it to be really special for me. Since it’s my first time. He doesn’t want to be my first but that all changed cause we were sending nudes as per usual. But he did this

weird thing where he got really turned on by me and said he didn’t care about it and he just wants to fuck like on regular basis. I’m just confused cause to be honest I don’t mind it but I think I want to do it with him cause I want to be good at sex for someone else(future boyfriend). Would it be weird if I asked him to go for lunch so we talk about it instead of jumping it?