I am hsv 2 positive but never an outbreak.

I have been hsv2 since 2009 so almost 10 years. I didn’t even know until about 2 years ago when my boyfriend at the time broke out so an attempt to end The Who gave it to who I called my gyno and sadly I was devastated to find out it was me and I passed it but I don’t have outbreaks at all. I was with the father of my kids for 6 years. He never had any sign then three years with my recent ex and he broke out a year and a half into our relationship. I am now with someone I met who miraculously admitted he was hsv2 before I even told him I was. He has many breakouts but since we’ve been dating he’s having even more!! Am I causing him to break out more?? How could I be if I’ve never had one? I doubt many have a similar situation or don’t want to talk about something so personal but it feels like it’s my fault he’s suffering from breakouts. Can anyone give any input on this??