please helppp!

so me and my husband have been having a rough patch...sexually. we totally want and desire different things right now. I want light spanking and sexy talk he wants to have sex outside! we aren't comfortable with each other's ideas lol. last night we had a "talk" about this. I am the high sex drive in the relationship mind you. my husband wants me to "tease" him for the next couple weeks and see how it helps with getting him in the mood. problem is I don't know how to tease!! I have always gotten sex if I wanted it so I never had to tease lol. someone please help. I need ideas stories advice all of it!