Is this childish?

Question

So my soon to be ex and I have two kids. 1 and 2 and our one year old has a well check on the 25th and I texted him to let him know and he told me I no longer have that obligation when your gonna have the kids. So grow up a little bit and just face it. Is it childish that I told him about it and asked if he was going to be able to make it? This whole thing sucks and he’s so negative and mean about everything like I’m the enemy when he’s the one who’s stepping out. 😔

Answer

All you can do is be an adult about things. You let him know which is great. If he chooses not to show up that’s on him. You can’t change his response or behavior. Regardless of your marital status he indeed does have an obligation to his kids. Certainly he doesn’t have to attend but you gave him the opportunity. I say just communicate with him through email that way it’s documented

Answer

The father of my children is never involved. Even when we were together. My oldest (2 year old) has to go to the er on Friday which was his day to pick them up for his visitation. I told him he can come up there and when we were finished there he could take her home, instead he decided to not even show up and send his mother to pick her up.

Is this childish?

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