Bigger Breast Bras

Now this is more of a controversy within a controversy. I’m a big breasted woman, I wear a 28H (uk size) but if I go without an underwired bra (let alone no bra at all) I get a lot of stick from my friends and family. One of my questions is:

Is the free the nipple movement geared towards smaller breasted women?

There’s next to no bralettes for women with my size chest, and women like me do get a tougher time from society concerning my breast situation. I hate hate hate bras, and don’t want to wear one all the time but still want that support.

Another question I have is:

Does society shame larger breasted women?

For example, all the bras I own are a thin bit of fabric to hold them in attached to an underwire. All of them in black, nude, or white. All of them are ugly, and if you find a nice one you like you need to take a bank loan out to afford it. So:

Is the lingerie industry biased towards big boobs?

Let me know your take