what is wrong with people

I'm sick of seeing people refusing to do the most basic things for their children. Won't take folic acid before conception but will spend money on a fertility monitor?? Won't stop drinking until 12 weeks because you think it won't impact the baby until later in pregnancy?? What on earth, just put down the drink, it's not hard. If it is hard then go see your doctor about addiction help. the same people then go on to shame others for every parenting choice they make but they won't do the most basic things for their child? what on earth is wrong with people.