‼️Desperate for advice‼️

I have an 8 months old VERY sassy but oh so sweet girl, UNTIL bedtime and then it turns into this...

sometimes it only lasts 15 minutes sometimes up to an hour! Our nighttime routine is she gets a bath, eats a bottle and i sit down and rock her to sleep. Most nights she’s tired she just fights it SO hard. I have literally had family members pull me aside to ask if my husband is physically hurting me because i have scratches and bruises FROM MY 8 MO. OLD! I have tried other ways of getting her to sleep (walking, bouncing, laying her down awake) and i whole heartedly disagree with the “cry it out method” nothing has seemed to work and i still end up with a fight on my hands every night. Some nights I get so frustrated i have to pass her off to my husband and take a minute to cry. I’m a young mama and I don’t have many other mama’s to guide me with good advice and I’m bring this here desperate for advice!

EDIT: We don’t let her nap after 5pm and start getting ready for bedtime 9pm so she usually always tired she just fights it!**