I’m currently 20 years old and 16 weeks. I will be 21 and my fiancé will be 23 when the baby gets here. We currently live with my mom. I just got a new job so, we planned to move out a couple of weeks before the baby arrived in December. My mom has health issues like TIA strokes which makes it hard for her to live alone, bc she doesn’t always know she is having one. She also needed the financial help until she’s able to get disability. I want to move and start my own life, but I also don’t want to leave my mom ass out. She’s expecting to move into a bigger house with us. I don’t mind it, because as a FTM, I’m sure we’ll need the help. It will also help us financially because we need to save money and buy a new car soon. I’ll Especially need the help during my 12 weeks off, but this can’t be forever. I don’t want her to get the impression that she can live with us forever and follow us around through our marriage bc my grandma lived with her her whole life. I plan do get out of dallas when our child is a year. Is it bad for us to live with our mom? How do I talk to her about this?