I know most of you gals want your first to be a boy...

A lot of people have this concept that an older brother will protect his younger sister but I want to let you know this is bullshit! When they are teens / middle school the son will not protect his sister! I had an older brother and he was an asshole!!

We are cordial as adults but he was a dick head to me growing up.

I know a lot of you will say “my son won’t be like that, or he isn’t like that he loves his sister!”

That may be true, all families are different. But please don’t desperately wish for your family to look a certain way just because that’s how society makes a “perfect family” look (I.e. a dad older than a mom with a son and a younger daughter). Every family is different and should be celebrated!