Infertile and fiancé says quit worrying??

Question

Today i found out that I may not be able to have children, depending on some more tests for the final conclusion. My fiancé is out of town for business and when I called him to tell him this I was crying and he got upset at me and said to quit worrying about something i cannot control and now has not spoken to me the rest of the night. Idk what to do..

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Men handle emotions different. Give him time. He doesn't know how to console you. 1. he is far away and 2. I'm sure he knows your eagerness to be a mother. He is prob emotional too. It's a change for him too- as he may not have children. My husband took a while to open up. It will get easier to talk together. Try to remember that this is happening to the both of you. You can get through it. You just need time.

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That is possibly one of the the most difficult things you could hear and he really needs to be more supportive of you. 
Is it possible that he reacted that way because he is upset too? 
I’m so sorry. I really hope those tests are wrong and that you get your miracle baby.

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It must just be his mindset but I agree with him

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Do what you can to get your mind of him and that news, go out with friends, watch a movie, whatever works for you. From my own experience with my husband he always comes across as a complete f****** d!ck over the phone but does much better in person. Sometimes it’s hard to console when you’re not there. This is hard news to take but you won’t know for sure or what is going on until you go through the next round of testing. If he’s your fiancé you guys obviously love each other and are together for a reason. Don’t forget that and then discuss when you can talk to him in person, and admit that you got hurt by his reaction. Open conversation is always the best option, but until then keep yourself busy and focus on the good things in your life.
But know what you can always vent here and what not! Best wishes to you and fingers crossed for good news ❤️❤️❤️

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well then he must love you enough if hes acting that way. Maybe you should consider other possiblities adoption? Dont be to hard on yourself Doctors are not 100% right. 
My aunt was the same, she had money so did every possible test known to science, supposidly she could and would never have children. So the yrs passed, she adopted 2 as babies diffrent yrs and guess what after 14 yrs bam,,, she gets pregnant and has a healthy beautiful boy.  God blessed her as hes the only one with the last word.

Infertile and fiancé says quit worrying??

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