Do you think I'm in the wrong?

Question

Okay here it goes,
Please try reply with non judgemental comments,

My guy keeps finishing inside Me, yet his adamant we are never having children,
His going Bournemouth in September to do an adult degree, and I've decided if I become pregnant I will not tell him till he moves away,

My reasoning is I know for sure he will say I'm ruining his life and stopped him achieving a degree.

I plan on telling him but when I'm in the safe zone as I know the stress will be bad for me, I grew up in care and have no family but I'm easily toyed with and I dont want to be talked into anything,

The way I see it is, he can't go mad if his not prepared to use condoms, but that won't stop him

Answer

Darling, why do you want to sleep with a guy who seemingly has such little respect for you or your opinions? Not least have a child with him. It seems incredibly cruel to bring a child into that sort of situation. I don't mean to be harsh but it sounds like you both need to grow up and get responsible. Good luck.

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Stop sleeping with him. You're allowing him to do whatever he pleases with your body, yet he doesn't want to deal with the consequences. Stop dating such a douche. You don't want to be pregnant and alone while he goes off to school. Move on.

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Id talk to ur dr about an iud or stop sleeping with him unless he agrees to use a condom...express to him how u feel and that if he feels u being pregnant will stop him from getting his degree that's fine but he needs to stop doing that plain and simple....its ur body.... if u feel that him moving away will make u guys stronger that's ur opinion ur the only one here who knows ur situation but bringing a baby into the world certainly won't make any of this easier and u need to explain that to him

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So why do you think the best course of action is to get pregnant by a guy that is moving away and who seems to not really care about conciquences? How about YOU get on birth control so you don't get pregnant? If this guy is moving away and will be gone for who knows how long why would you want to have a kid by him? Especially if you think he is going to be upset and has said he is t having kids?

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If a guy tells you he never wants children....believe him!

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I personally feel that I am extremely grown up, I am aware of my situation and further I do love the guy,
For some unknown reason people assume a relationship ends when one person moves away but for me it will only make us stronger, I have no concerns with him moving, only that he has a habbit of finishing which is something no amount of talking can fix

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I agree with everyone that has commented. He's not stupid I'm sure, he knows that he will eventually impregnate you. Why aren't you on bc if he doesn't want kids? Haven't you guys had this conversation?? I guess I'm having trouble wrapping my head around this. Unless you don't care to get pregnant and the father not be around and not knowing the future of your child and fathers relationship.

Do you think I'm in the wrong?

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