Please don't judge...

Ginny • Hello I'm 25 and loving my life. We are expecting a little boy and I'm in love with this baby.
So I have learned more about myself sexually. I am interested into kinkier things like sexual pain and bondage. Not to the extreme but I haven't found my limit bc I have not been that far with my boyfriend. I had my hands tied one time but that was it. But I want to do more and I don't know how to tell my boyfriend without scareing him. I just want to make it more pleasurable for both of us....please help.
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Sa

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Start with toys and random small things like blindfolds and handcuffs.... Eventually he'll get the hint ;) if not, sometimes you just have to flat out say what you want! Guys can be kind of stupid sometimes so just talk to him if he doesn't get it :) 

Kr

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Communication. Men like when you give them direction. They can't read your mind, and you can't read his. So the important thing is to trust him with your sexual needs, find out together what fits into both of your ideal sex lifes, because you only live once. It helps when talking about these things is bring up fantasies. You tell me yours I tell you mine. It runs smoother since your already talking about sex. If your scared you might scare him then take it one step at a time. Because if you don't ask or tell you shall not receive.

Gi

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Thanks gals. I'll have to look around and see what I can find and plan on what to say without scaring him.