Should I say something???

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I am currently pregnant by my ex, he has decided to financially provide but not physically be there. he currently has a girlfriend and our child was conceived due to his infidelity. When we slept together I didn’t know about her.. he lied saying they broke up. They have been together for over a year. I’m currently 2 and 1/2 months. I don’t want to ruin his life but I know the reason he won’t be there is bc of her. I do know how to contact her.

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Some of you ladies need to go back to school and take some reading and comprehension courses. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
I would tell her. She will find out eventually if you decide to take him to court. He can say that he will provide but once the child is here it’s another story and he could backpedal. I would try to handle any negativity early on in the pregnancy and have a plan for when the baby here and be prepared. Remember it’s about the child now, and you want to sort things out to co-parent successfully.  You want to strive towards positive  and healthy relationships vs bitter, angry, immature and childish behavior.

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I would tell her. She should know what guy she is with, so she can find someone better.

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So you were sleeping with him knowing he was in a relationship and now you want to call her and tell her you’re pregnant?!? You did it to yourself. Smh

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You sound really silly talking about your child was conceived due to his infidelity. You both were in the wrong. But I’m definitely not against letting his girlfriend know he has a baby on the way. He should be the one to tell her but I’m sure she won’t and no woman should be played like that.

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Guys... she literally said she didn’t know they were together. Everyone chill. I would tell her, I would wanna know if it was me

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Honestly, I'd tell her because of she found out on her own, it would hurt her more. I'm sorry you got into this situation.  I wish you the best of luck. Also congrats on the baby.

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If it was me I'd want to know.  But you NEED a formal agreement stating that he doesn't want custody and is going to pay child support.   If you tell her, they will fight and maybe break up, and he will probably be angry with you.  He might try to refuse to support you.  
Not saying dont tell her, just be aware of the repercussions.

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IF HE CHEATED ON HER.... I WOULD TELL HER!!! I would tell her just so she knows the kind of guy she is with. Nobody deserves to be with someone who does that to them.

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Actually Em made a. Good point. She's gonna find out eventually so beat you told her and not him

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Uh, I wouldn't say anything, if it were me.  You should have had a pretty good idea of what you were getting yourself into when you slept with another girl's bf.  So you are a single mother now.  What would you even accomplish by telling the girl?  Nothing.

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