Please help. I don't trust my own judgement. Unexpected pg, but then possible miscarriage has been rumbling on for a week now. Married, 3 kids and lots of miscarriages before. My husband said he couldn't come to last week's blood tests etc as he wasn't allowed time off. So I said it was ok, I mean what else? Anyway, it turns out that he has taken this afternoon off, saying that I have an appointment so that he can make sandwiches for a party at his work place later. and go shopping apparently.

I'm furious, I feel as if he wasn't willing to risk or couldn't be bothered me ask for.time off last week but then uses our miscarriage as a lie to swing time off!

When the row started, as it does I'm finding, he then said two.or.three times that it was just a bundle.of cells. When I was shocked he said this. He said "but you said that". I did, when I was trying to.make.myself feel better. This is not nice from him surely? Would you be upset?

Thanks!