My argument with my husband

I feel so ashamed having to do this... but i think i could speak about my personal life to somebody.

Long story short, since we have been married we have been moving from london to another country and back to the uk currently living in scotland due to family problems.. my husband had to leave his business in london and he is currently struggling here. He doesnt like it, he doesnt think his business would work here and so on. Currently he is doing this shipping job that is sooo complicated but basically the customers order to our house and he ships it abroad. So today we argued about all of the big boxes being everywhere in the house. I work 3 days a week and look after my 1.5 year old babyy and husband is at home all the time. I have to cook, clean, look after my baby... so during our arguments i said this.. i said i work cook clean look after the baby and you promised to sort out these boxes two weeks ago and you are in the house 24/7 and you could t spare some time to sort it our . By the way these boxes are sitting right in the passage so we have to move each box every time we wre entering each room in the house...

He said horrible things swore, and i slapped him he left with his clothes and passport... came back after 11 hours... said call your parents i want a divorce... i said i need to sleep and said stop being silly... ive just woken up he has the same face i dont think its anger anymore i dont know how to approach him...