So i never had an orgasm during intercourses only during masturbating. Is this weird ?

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I’ve been with my partner for 8 1/2 years and i hate lying to him about me reaching orgasms during sex , although the sex is really good I can never reach that climax like i can when i masturbate

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lady. tell him. 8 1/2 years is too long to be lying! things aren't gonna change If you don't tell himm!

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I've never had an orgasm either. not even though masturbation or use of a vibrator.

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The majority of women can’t orgasm from penetration alone & need clitoral stimulation. So, try incorporating that during intercourse either by using ur hands, his hands, or a vibrator. U being on top & grinding on him can also help, because ur clit typically gets stimulated by his pelvic area. Or, just have him get u off by eating u out before sex. Either way, definitely STOP lying to him about ur lack of orgasms. Lying about it doesn’t help either of u.

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I recommend telling the truth to him.  He can’t learn how to make you orgasm if you don’t give feedback.  If you fake it all the time he thinks he’s doing the right thing to make it happen.  I recommend having him play w a toy on you or oral or both.  Touching the outside in the right way w your finger can also work.  Probably the easiest to get him also giving you orgasms eventually is having him play w a toy on you.

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It’s kind of a mixture of all 3 options tbh. You parter can do better, over time he will, and it’s also common for this to happen amongst girls.

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Same here girl, I can only cum when I do it myself. it makes me think something is wrong with me but I just haven’t had the moment yet.

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When I was dating my husband, I was very honest about what I liked. And the sex went from good to great. But you gotta verbalize it. 
I didn’t tell him I didn’t like his way. I just would try saying “I found an easier way to make me cum...”

So i never had an orgasm during intercourses only during masturbating. Is this weird ?

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