Sadly Update

I don’t think I can handle my boyfriend having a girl as a best friend. It’s too much, call me insecure but I don’t think I can do it😔 I feel so defeated I tried to give it a chance but I hate it. People tell me how I’m a horrible person with issues who can’t handle their boyfriend having another girl in his life well I guess I am. No amount of reassurance from him that I’m the only girl that matters is enough. It ticks me off even hearing her name or hearing she wants to hang out with him. I just want to be the only girl in his life but I’ve been told by others that I’m controlling and that can’t happen. I guess at this point it’s just safe for me to leave. I give up😔

UPDATE

I love him so much and he really doesn’t wanna let me go. I tried explaining to him it bothers me and it’s too much for me but he refuses to accept that and believes we need to talk and come to a compromise about it. I literally spent last night crying because I can’t help but feel this friend is gonna tear us apart. She wasn’t even there for him for a whole year ( because she chose her bf over him, he didn’t like she had a male best friend) and now she comes back and I’m just supposed to accept her as his friend with open arms. Idk what I’m supposed to do. He told me last night that he’s not gonna break off his friendship with her, but she broke off her friendship with you so what’s the big deal?