Am I wrong?

Question

So my dad is a raging alcoholic, that being said I only deal with him when absolutely needed. Tonight was the 4th of July so I naturally spent it with my family. He BLEW UP on me in front of 50+ people because apparently I’m the root of all of his and my moms problem (they constantly fight due to his addiction). He makes me feel like shit for being close to my mom constantly telling me it’s not normal and it’s weird. I work with my mom, we both have kids the same age naturally we spend a lot of time together. I’m sick of feeling bad for being close to my family. Sorry girls my rant is over. 
pS I’m 15 weeks pregnant and emotional as fuck and can’t stop crying.

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Your not wrong.  And it is assuredly not your fault. He’s just trying to hurt other people cause he’s probably in pain himself deep down. It’s good that you have a relationship with your mom. Not weird at all... it’s just too bad he can’t do better than he is, maybe someday

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I'm sorry for what you're going through. My father is also a career alcoholic. It felt like you are describing my family. Alcoholics like to blame everyone else around them for their problems rather than face the fact that they are the ones who have screwed up their own lives. If they can blame everyone else then they don't have to take responsibility to fix their own life. It sounds like your father is jealous of the relationship that you and your mother share with each other. I lot of alcoholics get are envious of other people's happiness, so they try to drag others down to make themselves feel better. Your not wrong. Don't let you Dad gaslight you. He's the problem.

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Not your fault how others choose to fuck up their life.  You don’t make him drink his does that all on his own.  You should have a relationship with you mom.  I talk to my mom every day.  Hell my mom was here all week visiting and I have talked to her on the phone/FaceTime 3 times tonight. Mostly because my son is being a butty but and will not sleep.

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