Any one else shamed a bit of there saggy belly? I’m 5 months post and I used to be anorexic, I’m having a hard time trying to like my post mom body.. especially because my job is a camgirl and I just don’t feel very beautiful like I used to when I was 18.

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I feel your pain. 3 kids later and my pouch has never gone away even though I’ve lost all the weight. I’ve tried working out/eating better and it helps a little but it will simply never go back to the way it was without plastic surgery, I’m convinced.
But we are so much harsher on ourselves than others probably are. I say love your body and be kind to yourself whenever possible.

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You look great! And your body went through so much to create a beautiful life!

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Right there with ya. Was anorexic/bulimic when I was younger. Recovered and have been doing amazing but it’s hard seeing your body that way. I just keep looking at my beautiful baby and it makes it all worth it. Hang in there, our bodies did an extraordinary thing. They made life!

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You have to embrace it or it’ll never change. I feel like it’s a state of mind thing. My husband made little comments, and still does sometimes, that used to make me feel so flabby and ugly. But for the past month or so I said fuck everyone else and focused on everything positive. Everything in life, not just motherhood and my body. This made a huge difference. Even though not much has changed with my body, in that month, I love it. I embrace it. We just carried a baby in there for crying out loud. We deserve a damn medal. 
Long story short. My negative mind let me think negatively about myself. I work out when baby lets me. And eating clean makes me feel better mentally.

Right after birth.

Now at 3 months postpartum ( ignore the puppy, it’s one of the only pictures I have of just my belly)

6 weeks post. ( this is when I hated my body) 
Every postpartum body has the stretched skin that crinkles together when you sit. And some , I do, have stretch marks. But that comes with pregnancy and I love those things about me. If I could carry a child for 9 months and go through labor. Then I can do this. 
It’s all about being positive and when you’re up to it working out a little. I felt like working out made me feel a little better just knowing one day I’ll have a better body than before pregnancy.

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I 100% identify with this. I personally think you look beautiful. But yes, it is so hard to be in love with your body after that bump is gone. I call it my jelly belly. I'm slowly starting to love it, but it's very difficult. I'm almost 6months post! You'll get there. I promise. You're beautiful!! Just keep giving it time. Exercise will help tighten things back up. Stay strong, momma. 💗

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I had 3 kids I'm 22 and I have the worst baby weight over hang but I just say fuck it and rock it

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It took a awhile for me but it came to the point were I know there’s along ways to go before I get to were I want to be I know my body is changed for ever and I’ll never have my tight stomach back and my stretchmarkless thighs are a thing of the past. Your body looks beautiful! Embrace it! And don’t let anyone shame your body! Here’s mine

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You look absolutely beautiful!!

Any one else shamed a bit of there saggy belly? I’m 5 months post and I used to be anorexic, I’m having a hard time trying to like my post mom body.. especially because my job is a camgirl and I just don’t feel very beautiful like I used to when I was 18.

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