Tubes tied or vasectomy?

My husband and I have been thinking a lot about sterilization after our daughter is born and we will have 2 kids by the time we are 26.

So my mother In law believes I should be the one who gets it done Since I'll be delivering in december anyways. I however told her to be quite since I don't want to have more rest time since I'll have 2 children to take care of plus a vasectomy is proven to have lower risk and non invasive with little or no recovery time.

My husband is in different about it but having his mother in law telling him about me getting my tubes tied when I deliver had him thinking ( Which won't be for long I can assure you)

But our other question is will doctors even consider us since we are younger? Would already having two kids play a role In them doing the procedure ?

Also can they be reversed if needed?

And by the way I'm not totally against getting my tubes tied. I just feel as if a vasectomy is a easier option for us as a family plus my mother works for a urologist and has know my husband and I since we were young.