Virtual cheating, respect and, physical cheating

Not sure if I should be concerned with my boyfriend of 4 years.. I have never actually caught him flirting or have any evidence of cheating. He does have a pass code to his phone that he has never shown me, but he lays his phone around often and his notifications aren't hidden because I woke this morning to see a lady message him recently early hours in the morning asking my boyfriend "hey what r u doing." there are clear boundaries that I assume we have an understanding about, I am not jealous if it is just a normal convo.. Because he had friends that are girls before we met and they had never had anything other just friends.... I have no problem.. What really bothers is why is this lady sending my bf messages at 2 or 3 am??? Should I investigate this further or should I just confront him?

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