plus size mamas

does your doc/midwife constantly tell you that youre too big? and every little issue you bring up, their excuse is because youre too big.... im yired of leaving my apts balling my eyes out. this is seriously so aggravating. i havent even gained all too much with this pregnancy. with my daughters i did and lost all hut 20 within a year. (i gained 102 with her) but this time ive gained 30 and im proud of it bc its not too bad. but i cant go an appt without them blaming it on my weight.